Mine came on briefly on the first long drive, we stopped and had lunch and it was no longer on when I restarted it and continued. this was at about 600 miles. Hasn't come back on.
Mine activated with cruise control on when the car in front of me entered a left turn lane very late I had enough room to continue past them but it still braked.
I found mine sitting in dealer inventory, had the options I wanted especially the factory tow, mainly because a full-size spare tire comes with that option. But I'm in Ford Country "Metro Detroit Area" but I still had to search a bunch of dealer stock.
That video was quite interesting, but you would think there must be a software way to change the default. Possibly a future firmware update with the way fuel prices are headed.
eTrailer states "You can use the Load Stops for Yakima HD Bar, JetStream, FlushBar, and RailBar Crossbars - Qty 4 Item # Y01161, which will also fit in the T-channels of Thule Wing Bar Evo crossbars." But they are out of stock now.