Figured it out, sorry and can't see how to delete thread. Didn't see that there was a blank pin and was using the 2nd instead of 3rd wire. I bought one of the harness extenders. Used the right one and it works good.
I ordered a kit from f150leds com . I have a 24 BS Badlands. The video they provide as instructions on YouTube shows to use the brown with blue wire as power and black with green tracer as ground on the driver's side headlamp. This does not work. I tested lights with 9 volt and they work I tried...