Just as a note for those interested; you can still buy this part through fords website and have it installed locally. I just had this done to my mom's Bronco two weeks ago as hers didn't come with it and she was jealous that mine had it.
all together cost me ~$385 to have done, labor was around...
My guess is you “restored from backup” when you got your new phone and in your IOS settings the phone is still named ‘iPhone 14’.
check to see if that’s the case and then try re adding to the car